tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85882113144917166212024-03-18T20:16:04.310-07:00The Tales of a Stay at Home Mom
These are the tales of a mom that is trying to keep her priorities in the right order while being married, staying at home with a 2 year old boy, and maintaining a home.
Karihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06605783250653789276noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8588211314491716621.post-70775458443188084812015-09-14T19:21:00.002-07:002015-09-14T19:21:51.299-07:00Lightweight Strollers are Perfect for Living in the CityWhen my children were very young, we lived in a small apartment on the Lower East Side of Manhattan. The apartment was lovely; there were high ceilings, polished wood floors, and glass doors that opened onto a terrace with a green park bench and an ornate cast iron railing. The only thing lacking in our humble abode was space. My husband and I always had to be creative about how we utilized any available room.<br />
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There was one bedroom so I painted the wall that the trundle bed and crib hugged a warm muted sunflower yellow to signify that this part of the room was theirs. Opposite sides of the bedroom were decorated completely differently; one side for adults and one side for children.<br /><br />We also had to be creative about storage. Necessities such as strollers were sometimes hard to store. Luckily, when my youngest was a toddler, I was able to downsize to just a Valco Baby lightweight stroller. The stroller was easily compacted and took up very little storage space. I kept it in the corner of our front hall closet, where it fit nicely.<br /><br />I loved the lightweight stroller because it was so easy to handle. I could easily lift the stroller with my son in it without any assistance, and carry them up or down the stairs that led to our apartment building.<br /><br />There are so many benefits to lightweight strollers. They are easy to maneuver, easy to store and easy to transport. And, with a Valco Baby stroller, I knew I was using a product with which I could entrust my children.<br />Karihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06605783250653789276noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8588211314491716621.post-9263513785961132102015-08-30T21:23:00.000-07:002015-09-07T20:54:58.607-07:00Graco Offers A Stroller for Any Occasion<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I have always been a very active person, and after having my son, I wanted to maintain that lifestyle and find a way to include him in my morning exercise routine. I purchased a jogging stroller so that I could maximize my fitness during our morning strolls around the neighborhood.<br />
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With my <a href="http://www.gracobaby.com/products/pages/fastaction-fold-jogger-click-connect-stroller-tidalwave.aspx" target="_blank">Graco FastAction Fold Jogging Stroller</a>, I can keep a fast walking or light jogging pace without jostling my son. Using the stroller provides me with an extensive workout since I am also exerting energy from pushing it. He also seems to enjoy the brisk clip. In fact, now he gets excited when he sees me readying the stroller; he knows it means that mommy and he are going to the park!<br />
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Although the jogging stroller is ideal for our 8 am park excursions, it does not fare as well in other locations, which is why I also have a lightweight stroller. This baby stroller is perfect for running errands with my child in crowded stores or maneuvering through crowded Manhattan streets during rush hour. The stroller is also really easy to transport, so I may easily throw it in the trunk of the car when we go visit my parents in the suburbs.<br />
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Having different strollers allows me to both maintain my pre-child routine and incorporate my son into it. We are thus able to have “mommy and me” wherever we go.<br />
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Learn more about stroller, you can <a href="http://bestbabystrollerjudge.com/" target="_blank">check this website</a>Karihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06605783250653789276noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8588211314491716621.post-22398664848840644642011-07-30T07:38:00.000-07:002015-08-27T21:27:54.089-07:00Media Monday: God vs. Media<h3 class="post-title entry-title">
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each week I'm going to focus on one area of my life that I think the
media is affecting me. I started with the topic that I think should come
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Before
I started my blog and reading other blogs the media I used most was TV
(not cable but Netflix) and Facebook. I know that about 1 1/2 years ago
that Facebook was where I spent the majority of my time. Farmville, Farm
Town, Cafe World. I was struggling to get use to the fact of having a
little one around and being home all day without adult interaction. Then
there was TV. I could just turn it on and find a movie or TV series
that I wanted to watch and I could sit there for hours. At this point in
my life Media was winning without a doubt and my life showed it. </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I
was down (not really depressed just not really sure what to do with
myself and my day). Rex was a great baby and would just entertain
himself for hours without needing me except for eating and diaper
changes. He really didn't seem to care whether mommy played with him or
not. I started to feel more and more convicted about the time that I was
wasting on nothing. </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I
still didn't invest time with God but I started to do other things. I
started enjoying more time with Rex. I found different mom's groups and
tried them out and ended up starting my own group that is faith based
because that's what God wanted me to do (I was trying to get out of it
by finding another group but that wasn't going to happen). In this new
group I started feeling that I needed to <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #6fa8dc; font-size: medium;">strengthen my relationship with God</span> and started a Bible study with the other moms and tried to include <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #6fa8dc; font-size: medium;">alone time with God</span> daily that wasn't included in my Bible study (I'm still struggling to make this work). I started <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #6fa8dc;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">praying more</span>,</span>
by myself, over my husband (although he doesn't know it), and out loud
with other women (which is something I'm not comfortable doing at all). </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I went to a <a href="http://www.crossmg.org/watc.php" target="_blank"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Women At the Cross</span></a> weekend
and healed some deep hurts from my past thanks to God and His amazing
power. More and more God was winning over my Media. I still was watching
to much TV but I was at least <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #6fa8dc; font-size: medium;">getting better and having some time with God</span>.
Then I started this blog and felt the urge to get it up and running and
find other blogs to follow and try and get more people to follow my
blog. I wanted to write about things that were interesting to people but
I wanted to make sure to be real. I'm not on to put on a fake mask, to
put on a "show" to be liked. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #6fa8dc;">What you see is what you get</span>.
And slowly the media started to pull me in again. I started struggling
with staying at home all the time and it got worse when we became a one
car family because now I'm really confined to my house unless I walk or
have a friend willing to pick Rex and I up. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #6fa8dc; font-size: medium;">I kept getting lost</span>
in reading other peoples blogs and enjoying what I was reading but I
have to say that I found so many great blogs that are full of God's love
and Word that <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #6fa8dc;">I started to feel inspired</span>.
I started wanting more alone time with God and I wanted to read more
from these wonderful ladies and I wanted to inspire other women like
these ladies were for me!</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Then Media Monday's came along and I decided that this was a great time to see who is winning and I'm have to say that <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">GOD is winning</span>
(most days)! If I'm spending to much time on the computer than
someone's post convicts me and I get off and get other things done. God
has taken my favorite channel from the little bit of cable channels we
have so that way I won't be sucked into watching TV in the afternoon (I
will admit I was pretty mad and almost called the cable company but then
I remembered that I had been praying to God to help me not want to
watch TV so I just thanked God and moved on). </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I
have done pretty good this week with my media and I'm getting less and
less time here and investing the time I do take to read what I find
important and I share what I think is important and what will help
myself and others.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Next
week I will be talking about Media and My Marriage and the struggles
that are wrapped all around that. I'm going to set some personal goals
and work to achieve them and I will let you know how I do.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I
would suggest taking a serious look at how much media is taking away
from you and your relationship with God. It was interesting for me to
look back and see the amazing changes He has made in my life.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This weeks GOALS on Media and Marriage</span><br />
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<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Go to bed when the hubs goes to bed (or no later than 9pm)</span></li>
<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Get
up with him in the morning and make him breakfast (even if its just
toast) and make sure he gets out the door on time and with everything he
needs. </span></li>
<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This extra morning time with be my time. I can choose to work out or read blogs or clean. </span></li>
<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm
going to ask my hubby to take over bedtime. I'm going to take this time
to go for a walk and get some exercise and I'm going to invite friends
along with me.</span></li>
<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm going to get Rex up every morning by 8 so that when 8 pm comes around he is ready for bed.</span></li>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So there they are. I will let you know next Monday how I do! Wish me luck!</span><br />
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Karihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06605783250653789276noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8588211314491716621.post-89578953025683454282011-07-22T07:40:00.000-07:002015-08-23T07:41:54.068-07:00Homeschooling Goals<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">
have been trying to figure out how to get started on the whole idea of
homeschooling. Being the first in my immediate family to do this, not
feeling like I'm really capable of it, and thinking about all the work
that is ahead of me just keeps me wanting to forget that its going to be
time before I know it. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Rex
just turned 2 in March and I need to get started at least thinking and
researching all the different types of homeschooling and deciding which
is the best for us to at least start out trying. Not to mention the fact
that he needs to start learning now! He loves discovering things and
play learning in so many ways and I know that I need to tap into that
now and get started.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So in knowing that here are some of my personal goals to make it not so overwhelming.</span><br />
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<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm
going to write out why homeschooling is important to me and talk to the
hubs about why he wants me to homeschool and I'm going to write out a
vision statement for our family that we can review and revise as needed
(at least each year make sure it is still working for us).</span></li>
<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm
going to make sure that I'm setting good examples for Rex by reading
more books and getting dirty with him while exploring things that are
interesting to him. I want to show him that Mommy doesn't know
everything but we can learn and figure it out together. </span></li>
<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm
going to start praying about homeschooling. I know I'm suppose to do it
but I really need direction and comfort that I'm able to do it and I
know that God will provide that for me.</span></li>
<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm
going to make sure that I take every opportunity I can to teach Rex
things. Whether it be while I'm cleaning or cooking or playing at the
park. I want to make sure that I'm doing everything I can to make
everyday moments teachable ones.</span></li>
<li><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Finally
I'm going to relax and not stress about it. Homeschooling shouldn't be
stressful. It should be fun! That's what I intend to make it!</span></li>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Those
are my simple goals that I want to complete by the end of the summer so
we can get started on our pre-homeschooling this fall. Wish me luck and
feel free to help me out! Give me ideas, links, your favorite places
that might help me out!</span></div>
Karihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06605783250653789276noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8588211314491716621.post-12593448885264650412011-07-15T07:43:00.000-07:002015-08-23T07:43:35.510-07:00Family Friday: Family Schedule<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Our
family schedule seems to be so different from a lot people I know. With
the hubs working (including drive time) about 12 hours a day it makes
our schedule different or he would never see Rex. So here it is...</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">6:00 or 6:30 the hubs leaves for work.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">8:30 Rex and I get up (bath time if none the night before)</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">9:00 Cook and Eat Breakfast</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">9:30 Leave for mom's group activity several times a week OR play time while Mommy cleans</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">12:00 Cook and Eat Lunch</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">1:30 Nap time for Rex, Bible time for Mommy (most days)</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">2:30
Rex is up. Watch Letter Factory (He's very cranky when he wakes up so
he gets a movie to allow more wake up time before playing.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">3:00 Play time/Story time/Cleaning together time </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">6:00 or 6:30 The hubs heads home and I start dinner.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">7:00 or 7:30 We eat dinner</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">7:30 Family Play Time</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">8:30 Start Bedtime Routine </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> Bath time if we had a really dirty day or he gets in the morning</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> P.J.'s</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> Running (he has so much energy still that he just does laps in his room)</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> Story time</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> Prayers</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> Kisses, music on, lights out!</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">9:00 Bedtime for Daddy</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">10:00/11:00 Bedtime for Mommy</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">There
are a few things I working on changing but haven't got there yet. Like I
want to go to bed earlier so I can get up when the Hubs leaves for work
but I'm a night owl and it's going to take a couple of weeks to get
adjusted to that. When I finally make these changes I will be able to
get more cleaning done before Rex gets up and maybe even get back into
my workout program in the morning and possibly even have more alone time
with God. That would be great.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Does
your family schedule differ from ours? How? Does it work for you or do
you need to make changes? I'd love to hear your thoughts too!</span><br />
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